Gay Budapest

Budapest

Hungarian Parliament, Budapest, by Dirk Hartung

Budapest

Most first-time visitors are surprised to find that Budapest is actually two cites: colorful Buda and hard-working Pest. They are separated by the blue-green waters of the Danube River, which flows placidly past. The monumental architecture and lovely natural setting make this one of Europe’s most eye-catching capitals.

The city is full of United Nations World Heritage Sites, including Buda’s Castle Hill, and the embankments of the Danube River. Andrássy Avenue is a elegant mile and a half thoroughfare of neo-renaissance and neo-baroque villas and mansions between City Park (Városliget) and Downtown. Heroes' Square (Hősök tere), the Opera House and St Stephen's Basilica are along the way, and Oktogon Square is at mid-point along the route. Liszt Ferenc Square, just south of Oktogon, is full terrace tables in summer, with good food and drinks at reasonable prices. Also worth a visit are the palatial Hungarian Parliament Building and the impressive Dohány Street Synagogue, the largest in Europe. It is home to only a small Jewish population, as many were killed during World War II.

This "Paris of the East" has long been known as a gay center of Eastern Europe, but things have really taken off since reintegration with the West. There is no single gay neighborhood, but most gay-popular bars and clubs can be found in Pest in the 5th, 6th, 7th, and 9th districts, many within walking distance of one another. Defining lines aren't drawn as sharply here as in the West - except at men's saunas or cruise bars - and people mix more. With a little discretion you can look for friendly and meaningful eye-contact most anywhere. Budapest Pride is gay Hungary’s largest annual event. Although attacked by anti-gay protesters in the past, it continues to draw a few thousand people each June.

 

Getting here

Budapest International Airport  is 15 miles southeast of central Budapest. You can get downtown via bus, shuttle bus, or taxi, but perhaps the best way is the speedy train connection from Ferihegy terminal 1 to Nyugati Railway Station with a hundred or more departures each day. See Mav-Start for online details. There are also high-speed trains arriving daily at Budapest from most major European cities.

 

Getting around

Although the city is relatively spread out, the system of buses, trams, subways, and light-rail trains gets you around quickly. See BKV-ZAT for service maps and schedules. One ticket is good for any of their modes of transportation. Tickets are available at most stations, and must be validated before you board by using one of the punch machines. Just watch the locals, or ask how. Taxis often overcharge tourists, so it’s best to have your hotel call a reputable company rather than hailing one on the street.

 

Currency and Money

The local currency is the Hungarian forint. The country is hoping to eventually adopt the euro, and many businesses catering to tourists already accept them. Contact your local bank with travel plans before leaving home to avoid charge problems, and ask if they have partner banks to save on ATM withdrawal fees.


Cruising

The Turkish thermal baths are one of the highlights of a visit to Budapest. Not gay establishments per se, these have been places for men to meet and relax together since the Ottoman era, long before "gay" was a concept, and they still are. The amount of cruising varies widely, so it’s best to ask a local for the latest scoop on the most active. Check out Squirt.org for more.

 

Media & Resources

The Hungarian LGBT Alliance, Magyar LMBT Szôvetség, is an umbrella organization of LGBT organizations, with online news and articles.

Budapest Gayguide has gay accommodations, plus listings for bars, saunas, and saunas. Budapest.com also has gay listings and website links.

The Aventura Hostel and Magnum Sauna websites also have online guides to gay Budapest, in English as well as Hungarian (and Croatian in the latter case).

The Budapest Bears website has listings of social events for local and international gay bears and friends. The Labrisz website covers women's news and party listings around town. RadioPink plays gay pop and dance music online, or on your iPhone.

Budapest Info is the official Budapest Tourism Bureau website, with general information on area sights, culture, food/drink, shopping and leisure activities. The Budapest Tourist Guide is a similar site. Expats Hungary and XpatLoop also have useful tips for English-speaking visitors.

The Hungarian word for hot, meleg, is local slang for "gay" - as in meleg vagyok (I am gay), or meleg filmek (gay movies). Leszbikus filmek are the women-for-women options at the cinema.

For map locations and website links to the businesses below, and more, see our gay Budapest listings pages.

 

Accomodations

Lodging choices range from among the most opulent hotels in Europe, to simple and inexpensive backpacker hostels, with everything in-between. These include some that cater to gay men exclusively. See our map & listings tab for these.

GayStay/Budapest offers five apartments at four Budapest locations. The helpful staff will gladly take the time to answer guests' questions about Budapest and gay life around the city. They also do guided tours such as: "Grand Budapest Sightseeing" and "Gay Bars and Clubs."

 

Going out

Action Bar (Magyar utca 42), basement bar, popular dark room, video lounge, rent boys, live weekend sex shows, nightly strippers.

Alterego Club (Dessewiffy utca 33), popular basement dance club, mostly younger mix, gay men and women, lounge, 3 bars, stage shows, retro sing-alongs and drag diva nights,

Amstel River Café (Párizsi utca 6) - CLOSED? - Dutch cafe/bar, mixed crowd, good food at good prices, pation seatings.

Café & (Dessewffy utca 30), mixed, gay-friendly cafe/patisserie, fresh bread, croissants, pastries, all-day breakfast; gayest evenings and weekends.

Café Eklektika (Nagymezo utca 30), lesbian owned/operated resto-lounge cafe/bar, international and Hungarian food; lunch, dinner, pizza and snacks, late Sat/Sun breakfast noon-6pm, live music, free WiFi, coffee/tea and cocktails, summer terrace.

Club Underground (Dohany utca 22-24), weekday restaurant, gay-friendly ages 16+ mixed weekend dance club & show bar, drag shows, karaoke, women and men.

Confetti Dreams at Kraft Club (Széchenyi István tér. 7-8), gay/  straight-friendly monthly theme parties, men, women, go-go and foam boys, performances.

CoXx Club (Dohány utca 38), basement, men-only sex club, 3 bars, cruise area/dark room, jail, sling, sex shop, porn videos; special naked, military, suckers and gang-bang nights.

Funny Carrot (Belvaros Szep utca 1), community locals' bar, affable bar staff, rent boys sometimes.

Habroló Bisztro (Belvaros Szep utca 1), small, cozy neighborhood gay pub, easy-to-meet people-friendly vibe, English-speaking owner.

Mystery Bar (Nagysándor József utca 3), young staff/crowd, videos, karaoke, cocktail specials, WiFi (may have closed)

Pepita Ofélia Bár (Klauzál tér 5), small cafe/bar, popular with women, live music acts/

Pizzeria Club 93 (Vas utca 2), mixed crowd pizzeria, pasta, burgers, deli meats and cheeses; espresso coffees, beer, wine, vodkas and mixed cocktails. Open noon-midnight daily, with deliveries.

Why Not Cafe & Bar (Belgrád rakpart 3-4), former Mylord, mixed daytime coffee shop/cafe with terrace tables near the Danube, evenings before or after dinner drinks.

Brutkó Diszkó does parties throughout the year at different places around town: winter in the clubs, summertime outdoor spaces, playing House, Acid, Electro, and Nudisco music.

Ösztrosokk is a monthly women's dance party - see their website for dates/venue.

In Debrecen, east of Budapest towards the Ukraine, look for monthly gay dance parties at Club Zeus (Domb utca 1), 

 

Saunas & pools

Gellért Bath (Kelenhegyi út 4-6), grand 1918 art nouveau general-public thermal bath and swimming pool, massage, cruisey outdoor areas.

Király Bath (Fô utca 82-84), dates to 15th century Arslan Pasha period, general-public hot mineral water bath and sauna. As of May 2011 no more men-only days, now mixed-gender only, so the cruisy vibe is gone.

Magnum Sauna & Gym (Csepreghy utca 2), biggest, most popular gay sauna, age and types mix, steam/dry, cabins, dark rooms, glory holes, video lounge, gym, bar, snacks; naked and other theme parties, Saturday shows and all-night hours.

Sauna 69 (Angyal utca 2), gay men's sauna, Finnish, infrared, steam, Jacuzzi, cabins, gloryholes, video lounge, darkroom, massage services, full bar, free internet and Wi-Fi.

For other general-public baths and swimming pools, see website Spas Budapest. Csillaghegyi (Pusztakúti út 3), an outdoor heated pool, open year-round, with nudist area up the hill, popular with gay men, is among their 15 listings.

The Rudas Thermal Bath (Döbrentei tér 9), no longer the meeting place for men it was for so long, with mixed bathing all the time, and very different customers, it is still of some interest for it's Ottoman dome, and octagonal pool.

 

Sex Shop / Fetish

Black Dream (Mária utca 9), bondage gear, leather wear, fetish items, pride & sex shop, Mr B shop.

Connection Sex Shop (Berzsenyi utca 3), sex shop toys, gay and straight DVD videos, magazines, accessories.

L'Amour Sex Shop (Király utca 72), large sex shop near Oktogon Metro stop, toys, acessories, straight and gay DVD movie sales and cabin rental screenings, cinema with straight movie shows until 4pm, then gay films 4-10pm.

- staff - November 2013

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  • Makes me want to visit
    Posted By: ken Hickilng | at Mar 1 2011 5:56 PM
    red flag



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