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Gay San Francisco

Every Sunday - Palomino Presents
Domingo de Escandalo

Every Sunday, 6pm at OMG! SCANDALOUS SUNDAYS Latin drag shows and dance party. Three drag shows (7:30/ 10:30/ 11:30pm) by Latin drag diva VICKY JIMENEZ and her Luscious Latina Ladies. Sexy go go dancers and drink specials. FREE admission before 9pm/ $5 cover after 9pm. Follows Comedy Open mic hosted by Joe Gorman and John Gallagher, 5:30-6pm.
The oldest weekly goth/industrial dance night in the country
Death Guild

Every Monday 9:30pm - after hours at DNA Lounge - six DJs in two rooms play a mix of gothic, industrial, synthpop, noise, ambient, and weird stuff for those 18+ who love the darker side of things.
28 years of Pubic Service!
San Francisco Jacks

Every 2nd and 4th Monday each month at Center for Sex and Culture, 1349 Mission St, SF. Just dick, desire… and lots of naked guys in one room! SF Jacks meat  - play until finished. $7 donation; no one turned away for lack of funds. 13th Jacks Virgin is our guest! For more info see website or call: 415 267-6999.
Strip down, enjoy some cheap drinks and get into cruising
NSA Underwear Party

Every Wednesday night, 9pm-2am at OMG, 43 6th St. No Strings Attached - singlets, boxers, briefs, jock straps, coxsox, bathrobe editions; bears, cubs, otters and fetish nights; dirty beats, dim lights, sexy vibe, piggy men, hot bartenders; wet bulge contest. Free clothes check, $4 cover - free with student ID. Doors close at 1am.
Bay Area's Sexiest Weekly Latin Fiesta every Wednesday Night in The Castro
Club Papi Hump Day at Beaux

Every Wednesday Latin nights, with Club Papi stripped-down go-go dancers and diva shows. Each week with 8-10 of the hottest Go-Gos from around the USA, plus fabulous drag divas AMAYA BLAC, DORYS, and special guests! Sweet Latin/ Dance/ Top 40 musica by DJs CHECKO + ADRIAN! Complimentary cover before 10pm each week. Drink specials! Lemon Drop Shots from the sexy Papi go-gos!
The best LGBT country-western dance club in the world

Every Thursday, 6:30-10:30pm + Sunday,  5-10:30pm, at Sundance Saloon, 550 Barneveld Ave, SF. Two-step, line dance, waltz, swing, or just hang out. If you don't know how to dance, don't worry, they'll teach you with beginner lessons, Sundays and Thursdays (+monthly Saturday nights with Beatbox Country) in friendly/ welcoming environment for women and men of all ages.
From Circus to Music Hall
Edwardian Faire & Ball 2019

January 25-26, 2019, 8pm. The 19th Annual Affair at The Regency Ballroom, 1300 Van Ness. Music, theatre, dance, art, storytelling, circus arts, fashion, technology, art, stories; artists, performers, high-flying trapezes, steam-powered machines, costumed ballgoers. Vau de Vire Society presents vignettes paying homage to controversial works of (in)famous illustrator Edward Gorey.
A party for drunk homos and those who love them...
Big Fat Dick

January 25, 2019, 10pm at Oasis. One Night Only! The country's longest running weekly queer party invades our favorite city w/ DJs: KELLY NAUGHTON + AARON ELVIS. The B.F.D. GO-GO BRIGADE: EDDY CEETEE, MATT FELLINE, ZIGGY BANKS, MATT C, MAC, ALI, AJ PHOENIX, MICHAEL STRICKLAND, TEDDY BRYCE. Hosts: LEON FOX + ROBERT CLAYTON. You're cute when you're drunk 'n' stupid.
The best in independent, alternative & subversive cinema from around the globe
SF INDIEFEST 2019 - The 21st San Francisco Independent Film Festival

January 30 - February 14, 2019, at The Roxie + Victoria Theaters and The Pop Up Theater, 518 Valencia St.  Two weeks "...promoting intriguing films which can’t be easily categorized. Such Mission District venues as the venerable Roxie Theater and the new Alamo Drafthouse Cinema will act as magnets for adventurous cinephiles.” – Peter Wong, Beyond Chron.
A new exhibition at the GLBT Historical Society Museum
Two-Spirit Voices: Returning to the Circle | Exhibition Opening

January 31, 2019, 7-9pm. The Bay Area American Indian Two-Spirits organization 20th anniversary - committed to activism and service in the Bay Area. Curators Roger Kuhn, Amelia Vigil and Ruth Villaseñor focus on 4 main themes: gay and two-spirit pride; the annual BAAITS Two-Spirit Powwow; indigenous medicine and responses to HIV/AIDS; and two-spirit meaning within the communities.
Light It Up First Friday - Your Lesbian, Queer & Friends Destination
XO First Friday | LGBTQ Stop Light Party

February 1, 2019, 10pm-4am. Kick off Valentines Month w/ a LIGHT IT UP Stoplight party to help find YOUR Valentine. Rock WHITE if Single, PINK for complicated, and RED if taken. Glow bracelets at the front for you to choose from or just wear said color. DJs That Girl + Rapture: HipHop/ Top40/ Party Anthems/ Club Hits/ Throwbacks. Visuals by Bombshells Chloe Rainwater + Jazmine Vieira.
Burlesque and Variety from bodies that speak for themselves

February 2 + 9, 2019, 5-8pm. QTease Door Host: Hurricane. Soundscape by Dub-S. Hosted by RedBone. Featuring: Hollywood Texas, Kitty Oaks, Bobby Ashton, Jezebel Jinx. Show: 6:30pm. $15-$25. FB
Together for one incredibly strange dance party
FROLIC + Jello Biafra

February 2, 2019, 8pm-2am. The ultimate furry dance nightclub + the ultimate punk rock legend - an all-vinyl night of roots of the roots Garage, Soul, Dementia, Surf, Funk ... and a bit of Punk. Next dates: Mar 2nd; Apr 6th; May 4th; Jun 1st; Jul 6th.
All-mashup dance parties: pop. throwback. hiphop. club bangers. burlesque
Bootie SF - February

February 2, 2019, 9pm - Fierce Females/ Groundhog Day. Feb 9th Valentine's Pre-Party w/ Smash-Up Derby; Adrian A, Tyme, Jupiter Gatling. Feb 16th Lady Gaga + Queen vs Everyone; The Monster Show, Tyme, Airsun, Jimi G. Feb 23: Generation X vs Millennials w/ Smash-Up Derby, Tripp, Jupiter Gatling + Jimi G. Midnight Mashup Show: Aerialist Catalysta, Lounge: Post Cliché, Airsun
Hosted by Hard French
Hard French Winter Ball with CeCe Peniston & Solar

February 2, 2019, 9pm-2am at Grand Theater/ Gray Area, 2665 Mission St. Out here snugglin, toasting our boom booms on a chestnut fire, four turtle dove’n n stuff and planning BALLS. Time to shine your tacones/ make your haircut appointments. Winter Ball time, baby! With CeCe Pensiton, Solar and residents Brown Amy + Carnita. Dress: fashionable, cosmopolitan, and beautiful bestia.
Friends & Family, Queer-Mixed San FranDISCO! Mixed with Love - 1st Saturdays
Go BANG! With Freshie + Sir JoQ & Your Residents!

February 2, 2019, 9pm-3am. Bringing crews + devoted dancers together in mixed, diverse, exciting environment, with nods to the diversity/ freedom of 70s/80s SF/NYC/Chicago disco nightlife with the flashiest, trashiest, classiest, sexiest, and craziest styles. GUESTS: Freshie + Sir JoQ. RESIDENTS: Steve Fabus, Sergio Fedasz, Prince Wolf, Jimmy DePre. Doors + Smiles: DAVID PRIEST.
1st Saturdays at Rickshaw Stop & 3rd Saturdays at Origin Boutique Nightclub
GameBoi SF - Lunar New Year Party

February 2, 2019, 9:30pm-2am. Twice a month in SF! Established in LA where GAMeBoi is nonstop every FRIDAY. The 18+ nightclub for the San Francisco Asian community. Hot Asian go-go dancers. GAMeBoi LA Resident VJ LaRock plays Pop/ Dance/ EDM/ and Asian Pop. Guestlist Tickets end at 10:30pm. Host: Mr GAPA 2018 Christo Roma. Performance: Ms GAPA 2017 Mimi Osa. Next: Feb 16th at Origin.
Modern day Indie & Electro meets classic Electronica from the 90s/2000s
Harder Better Faster Stronger: Lovefest

February 2, 2019, 9:30pm-2am. Month of love special set full of fun indie electro/nica dance tunes to go Head Over Heels for, including tracks from Daft Punk, Lana Del Rey, LCD Soundsystem, CHVRCHES, La Roux and more! Major dance floor love. Free stickers, glow rings, glow gear, sunglasses. 5' Aliens. Baby Alien Dance Buddies. DJs 2nite + Damon.
...a place for all drag mothers to bring their children, to hone their craft
Mother: February

February 2, 2019, 10pm - Mother: Gay Icons With Latrice Royale!. Feb 9th - Mother: Whitney vs Mariah. Feb 16th - Mother: Fresh Pop! Jan 23rd - Mother: Mother: J. Lo vs Selena. Next: Mar 2nd - TBA.
It’s a NEW situation for 2019 as Rich King presents...
The SUNDAY SITUATION with Trevor Sigler

February 3, 2019, 5pm-2am. Gotta get up to get down. Frst Sundays going forward. Tonight featuring TREVOR SIGLER + RICH KING plus hosts SHAHAR CISELSKY & MICHAEL BORTNER, along with StudMother SIOBHAN ALUVALOT. No cover before 7 - just 5 bux after that.
Free Staged Reading of new play by Jerry Metzker. Directed by Kieran Beccia
Playing Detective

February 5, 2019, 7pm. After a one-night stand with a man Joey met online, the police show up. His mysterious date, who vanished into thin air, might be connected to a murder. Against the advice of his friends, Joey can’t help investigating. The detectives on the case aren’t thrilled, but he can’t help himself. Besides, it keeps him in touch with that sexy detective.
Join the handsome, silly, and nerdy men and women of SF's Castro neighborhood
Castro Gaymer Night

February 5, 2019, 8pm-2am. Weekly tradition of games, laughs, and great cocktails. Lots of titles! Super Smash Ultimate (OOMMMMG everyone, the projector is fixed!), Mario Kart, Street Fighter, Jenga, Connect 4, and lots more. Get on the Eventbrite RSVP with hostess Saul Sugarman, for a chance to win a free cocktail.
PRESENTED BY: Club Papi Productions
PAN DULCE Wednesdays

February 6, 13, 20, 27, 2019, 9pm-2am. Wednesdays w/ the PAPI BOYZ. The Bay Area's #1 weekly Latin Hump Day Fiesta at BEAUX Nightclub. 8-10 of the hottest GoGos from around the USA; fabulous drag divas AMAYA BLAC + DORYS + special guests! The sweetest Latin/ Dance/ Top 40 musica by DJs CHECKO + ADRIAN! Come early for complimentary cover before 10pm. "YA TU SABES."

February 7, 2019, 9pm-4am. An exercise in uncustomary taste. Your nightcap variety show by John Fucking Cartwright + Kochina Rude. Featuring Coco Buttah (Lavale-William Davis), Faluda Islam, Jillian Gnarling, Kochina Rude (Cary Escovedo). BEATS by: The Creatrix (CLUB CHAI / No-Tech) + John Fucking Cartwright (Lyddle Jean). Dance all night, first Thursdays at the Stud.
with one foot in this world and another foot in the world next door
RAW presents Randy Reyes / Grisel Torres

February 8-9, 2019, 8pm. attempt at transformation in the moment of being witnessed and noticing that I am noticing you noticing me noticing you. what can we do with this relationship? this is an invitation. una fiesta. a moment in time that will probably never happen again because only you and you and you decided to show up and that means something. this is special...
Circle Left Contra Dances on Second Fridays
Circle Left Queer Contra Dancing

February 8, 2019, 8-11pm at First Unitarian Church in Oakland: 685 14th St, Oakland. Featuring Will Wheeler and friends w/ Andy Shore calling. Continuing event every 2nd Friday with 7:30-8pm beginners' lesson + 8-11pm dance. Gender-free contra dance sponsored by SF Bay Queer Contra Dance. Next date: Mar 8th w/ Audrey Knuth, Christopher Jacoby and Del Eckels; Susan Petrick calling.
A Queer Dance Party

February 8, 2019, 9pm-1am. Back again at Starline Social Club, (2236 Martin Luther King Junior Way, Oakland), Going LIVE - mixing the same dance party you love and adding some live music in the mix with some local talent! Featuring: Ah-Mer-Ah-Su (Live), FR333 (Live), DEITY (Host + DJ Set). Limited $5 Pre Sales. $15 at the DOOR.
Workshop for Men, Masculine Identified, and Non-Binary People
Decolonizing Sexuality w/ Lama Rod Owens & Rev. Daigan Gaithers

February 9, 2019, 9am-5:30pm. Through retreat, meditation, dialogue, sharing and personal storytelling, journaling and ritual, unpacking how patriarchy has shaped expressions of masculinity and the self. Taking a dharmic lens to examine our relationship to violence and domination, power, femininity, love and sexuality, unveiling and honoring non-patriarchal expressions of being human.
In the Seasonal Art Show space on the third floor
Queer Ancestors Project Exhibition 2019

February 9, 2019, 7-9:30pm.prints by Queer and Trans Emerging Artists Christine Abiba, Samantha Espinoza, Benny Gordon-Murer, Lia, Maya, Fernando Miguel, Sho Nakashima, Nidhi Patel, Shannon Prasad, and Queen Sen Sen, with artistic director Katie Gilmartin.
Hosted by DAD / Dudes And Disco and Go BANG!

February 9, 2019, 9pm-3am. SF disco powerhouses' collaborative effort - one special night for fans of each party to DAD BANG! Embodying DAD's Love Action/ Disco Satisfaction w/ Go BANG!'s Atomic Dancefloor Disco Action. Steve Fabus, Sergio Fedasz, Joe Prince Wolfe, Jimmy DePre + Kelly Naughton, Jumpr. DAD host Christopher R Vasquez. Joyous, welcoming, fun dance party for all.
Hosted by Swagger Like Us and Jolene's Bar San Francisco
Swagger Like Us Presents Bambii

February 9, 2019, 9pm-2am. Platform for emerging queer hip-hop artists, DJs and dancers to showcase their talents. An institution: fashion forward, sleek, cool, finger on the pulse of underground queer club circles. Featuring DJs Bambii, JiBBZ, and La Frida. Host: Sir JoQ. Cover: $10.
Hosted by Pound Puppy SF
Puppy Love feat. Very Much Romance

February 9, 2019, 9pm-2am. 5th annual Puppy Love. Some people want a carnation and a box of chocolates... others want dick. Choose your own adventure heaux. Special guest duo Miro and Kate of Very Much Romance + the ultimate Slob Dog, Oscar Pineda (Pound Puppy). Sweetheart Go Go Pups to choo choo cho$$e from. Electrified Dance Floor + Freaky Fog, au l'amoir - Erol V.
Hosted by The Lone Star Saloon
Woofer w/ DJs Lester Temple & Jim Hopkins

February 9, 2019, 9pm-2am. ROCK FUNKY DANCE PARTY - HIGH ENERGY BAD ASS BEATS. The Lone Star will be transformed into a dance club for this event - complete with trippy visuals created by Jim Hopkins, and a light show.
Hosted by PianoFight - NOT a one-woman show!
Without You I'm Nothing (In Drag)

February 9, 2019, 10-11:30pm. Parody-tribute to the Sandra Bernhard film/ stage creation. Bevy of shockingly beautiful drag performers re-interpret/ re-imagine/ re-inhabit Bernhard's many personae: Buster Riteopen, Dusty Pörn, Elsa Touche, Intensive Claire, Madd Dogg 20/20, Monty Quilla, Portia Guesa, Pretty, Strobe, Sugah Betes, Talon Marks, Thee Pristine Condition, Valentine.
Help support queer, cannabis nightlife as it continues to grow in San Francisco
PUFF the Queer Cannabis Drag Party

February 10, 2019, 7-10pm. PUFF those Winter Blahs away with us. DJs Dank + Sergio Fedasz, plus a group of amazing performers for your favorite cannabis appreciation and gay-mazing drag show full of love and fun. A fabulous show for you + some weed-eriffic prizes to give away at the Stoner Raffle.
Hosted by Queer Latinx Social Club and SF Eagle
Queer Latinx Happy Hour

February 13, 2019, 6-9pm. Join guest hosts Mr SF Eagle Leather 2019 Manuel Ojeda, Emperor of San Francisco Imperial Court Leandro Gonzales and Folsom Street Events Board Member Felipe Flores for this year's first Queer Latinx Happy Hour! As always jotería: gather, celebrate; nothing formal, nothing fancy, no agenda; just amor.
Dee Michel: Friends of Dorothy: Why Gay Boys & Gay Men Love The Wizard of Oz
Judy, Oz and the Need for a Shared History

February 13, 2019, 7-9pm. Discussing connections between the Judy Garland film, and Anglo-American gay male culture. Beliefs: gay favorite since 1939; FOD refers to Garland; no coincidence Stonewall occurred the night of Garland’s funeral; rainbow flag related to Over the Rainbow. Probably not true, they seem to be folkloric, providing a sense of gay identity/history.
A sexy ass Valentines Day Underwear Party takeover
JUNK - Pedal Pups Valentines Day Takeover

February 14, 2019, 10pm-2am. Hosts: Dulce De Leche + Pup Gunner. DJ Bugie keeps tails wagging/ paws digging. With guest Pedal Pup gogos + Annual Puppy Luv Auction. Raffle. Jello shots. Clothes check. Drink Specials. Funds raised through silent auction, gogo tips and jello shots benefit the SFAF. Join Pedal Pups at Powerhouse every 3rd Friday to support the kinkiest AIDS/LifeCycle team.
New Exhibition Opening | SoMa Nights:
The Queer Club Photography of Melissa Hawkins

February 15, 2019, 7-9pm. Highlights the extraordinary vitality of queer SoMa district nightlife during AIDS crisis era, marking a peak in AIDS activism and queer militant organizing. 1986-1994 work of young photographer Melissa Hawkins in The Sentinel gay weekly and other publications, vividly captures the scene with frankness and intimacy, reflecting dual journalist/ participant roles.
Time to stop flappin' your lips and start smackin' them third Saturdays
SF Make Out Party w/ DJ Jasmine Infiniti + Secret Guest

February 15, 2019, 9pm-2am. Tired of standing looking pensive/ warm, fierce/ approachable, yet that mega crush still hasn't come up to you? Just go: "hey, wanna make out with me for a photo? you get a free jello shot" and they go "um yes, duh." The rest is drunk history. Hosts: Kelly Lovemonster, Christopher Vasquez, Nark, Just and Shannon. Go-go: Dangerous-Rose.
The Middle East & North Africa queer dance party
ASHEq عشق

February 15, 2019, 10pm-3am, venue TBA. Amazing people, great music, sexy belly dance show and hot GoGo - here to support the Middle East North Africa LGBTQ community in San Francisco and the Bay area.
Your trashy dreams have come finally true
Trade (SF): Barbie Dream Dumpster

February 15, 2019, 10pm-4am. TRADE is coming to San Francisco, bringing your fantasies to the back alley. Barbie's Dream Dumpster can take a lot of load, don't forget to dress in pink (suggested) and dress slutty. DJs; William Francis (NYC) + Scooter McCreight (Toronto). Dancing sluts: Huckleberry Flirtlos, Ramslam, and Dirt Wolf. An inclusive event. All sluts welcome.
The Pedal Pups are keeping the party going...

February 15, 2019, 10pm-2am. Pedal Pups is at it again, keeping the party going. DJ Jason Godfrey will keep your tail wagging and your paws digging
w/ special guest gogos Zohar + Daniel. Door proceeds and shot sales benefit SF AIDS Foundation and Team Pedal Pups. At Powerhouse every third Friday supporting the kinkiest team on AIDS/LifeCycle.
Hosted by The Lazy Bear Fund

February 15, 2019, 9pm-2am. Ready to dance with beautiful hairy men and the men who love them? The Lazy Bear Fund invites you to FURRPLAY DISCO with DJs ROTTEN ROBBIE and CHAKAQUAN. Dress comfortably. Tickets: $25 at the door.
The most erotic, hedonistic gay dance party on earth

February 15-16, 2019. FRI 10pm-4am, Danzhaus. SAT 10pm-4am, Six. MEN of all backgrounds/ kinks/ scenes; a custom built environment to entice your desires. Conquer the dance floor to beats of World Class DJs and Infamous Porn Star Live Shows - allow your fantasies to run wild at the International Party that many attempt to recreate. NO ONE else can be the Original, the Best, the Only...
Black LGBTQ Film Fest
Two Short Films: I Live Here + A Different Direction

February 16, 2019, 7pm. Film 1). Stevie, in his first weekend living in the place he always dreamed of, is excited to get out to explore the Bay Area, but creates a situation with his new roommates, involving the police. Film 2): Gifted but struggling black gay writer and dancer Frankie Bailey, is battling depression; forced to face harsh realities he finally confronts a big challenge.
Hosted by DAD / Dudes and Disco
DAD February - Stache Bash w/ Mike ETC

February 16, 2019, 9pm-2am. DAD's annual Stache Bash is back - importing one of the best in the biz, LA's sultry stachinista Mike ETC (Mike Albrecht) for an extra special sssizzling set! Wiggle your whiskers to beats by ResiDAD DJ Kelly Naughton - PLUS, special guest Ben Foxy (Benjamin Cohn) + Handsome host Christopher R Vasquez on deck to tickle your upper lip (and your senses).
3rd Saturday at Origin Nightclub
GAMeBoi SF - Second Chances

February 16, 2019, 9:30pm-2am at Origin, third Saturdays. Established in LA where GAMeBoi is nonstop every Friday; 18+ nightclub for the San Francisco Asian community. Hot Asian go-go dancers. Also first Saturday monthly at Rickshaw Stop diverse pop/ dance/ EDM/ Kpop music mix by VJ LaRock (LA). FB
Cecil Russell's

February 16, 2019, 10pm-4am. DanceParty - featuring DJs Mohammad (Hot Tea) + Alexander (Reload). Hosts: Fernando, Christelle, Brian Johnson, Evan J Sun, Daniel Blair, Roman, Carlos, and Marco Ivan.
Hosted by Ky Martinez Productions
HEAVEN - Under the Sea

February 17, 2019, 6pm-midnight. Massive President weekend kick off party begins with HEAVEN. DJ Danny Verde and making his HEAVEN debut DJ Alex Lo. The HALCYON NIGHTCLUB will be turned into an Under the Sea experience. After HEAVEN, the kickoff of the mega party IMAGINA, at City Nights.
The creators of NOCTURNAL & HEAVEN are bringing SF a brand new mega party
IMAGINA w/ DJs Dani Toro & Paulo

February 17, 2019, 10pm-5am. PRESIDENTS weekend main event at the legendary massive CITYNIGHTS nightclub immediately following HEAVEN. Massive stage production, LED screens, lasers, props and more. $30 general/ $40 VIP. Ky Martinez Events.
Boys, Butts, Bulges
Cockshot Tuesdays

February 19, 2019, 9pm-2am. Gather gear, crew and bare all - down and dirty at the weekly 'Red-Light District' Castro party. Strip down at the free clothing check and maybe make a friend or two. Dress your in your sexiest gear/ jock/ undies for a chance to impress host Tye and win $100 at midnight. DIRTY Gogo Studs + Filthy Beats by DJ Chad Bays.
All are welcome!
Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District Community Meeting

February 20, 2019, 7pm, SF Catalyst, 1060 Folsom St. The Leather and LGBTQ Cultural District now exists. How will it be managed and overseen? Who will advocate to protect our remaining Leather and LGBTQ businesses to assure the neighborhood retains its kinky character? How to raise and allocate funds? Attend the Community Meeting to help decide these and other questions. Next: Mar 20th.
Black men loving Black men IS the revolutionary act
Tongues Untied

February 20, 2019, 7pm. Intended to shatter America’s brutalizing silence around…sexual and racial difference. With a politically controversial 1989 PBS screening, the film wielded transcendent power over audiences across race, cultures, and time, with honesty and poetry that would presage visual, performance, hip-hop, spoken word, and multidisciplinary artists to this day.
Free Third Thursday
Beyond Bloodlines: Queerness, Kin, Family Pt. 2

February 21 2019, 5pm. Film historian Irwin Swirnoff and Bay Area Now 8 visual artist Marcela Pardo Ariza host part II of Beyond Bloodlines, an evening of collective exploration into what queer family and kin can be. A compilation of film, visual art, performance, music, interviews, and readings by selected contributors, focusing on stories of family, in all of its pain and glory.
Come out! Take a break from work, and play with your girls
Hoe Is Life

February 21, 2019, 9pm-2am. You do have your HOE life ahead of you! A safe space for all those closeted hoes to be nasty and pervy, so let's celebrate each other's body and beauty. HOE ARE YOU? It's been a while...we're glad to be back with the lattest instalment of your favorite unapologetically slutty parteee. You never THOT it would CUM to this but ya THOT wrong!
Hosted by The STUD
Swagger Like Us Presents Foozool

February 22, 2019, 10pm-4am. Platform for emerging queer hip-hop artists, DJs and dancers to showcase their talents. An institution: fashion forward, sleek, cool, finger on the pulse of underground queer club circles. Featuring DJs FOOZOOL (CLUB CHAI), JiBBZ and FELA KUTCHii. Host: Sir JoQ. Cover: $10.
An underground dance party, full of visual stimulation - Everyone welcome!

February 22, 2019, 10pm. Dress to dance/romance. Back SF Oasis - the second party of 2019, with DJs Eric Bloom and Patrick to serve you.
Starring Kim Chi, Willam, & Laganja
Peaches Christ: Mean Gays

February 23, 2019, 4-10pm. It's survival of the fiercest as Kimmy Chi, a Korean home-schooled transfer student, attends an American high-school ruled by The Plastics, a drag queen girl-gang led by Willam George, with followers Peaches Wieners (middle name Swallows), and stoner dingbat, Laganja Smith. Note that on Wednesdays, they wear pink drag. After-Party at Beaux.
Upgraded with GROWLr

February 23, 2019, 9pm at SF Eagle. Jockstraps + singlets party with furry faces. Music and fun for Bears, Cubs & friends; hot go-go dancers. DJ Paul Goodyear. Next date: June 28th - Bearracuda San Francisco GAY Pride! UNDERWEAR NIGHT at Folsom Foundry, 1425 Folsom St.
The San Francisco LGBT Asian club destination - Every 4th Saturday
ShangriLa - RED Party

February 23, 2019, 10pm-6am. ShangriLa celebrates Chinese Lunar New Year and Valentine's month with RED Party! Let’s drink and dance. We will have a feast tonight. It would be merrier if you come! DJ Alan Bentley. Special Performance at Midnight! See FB
Polyglamorous has been kicking for 4 years
Polyglamorous 4 Year - Horse Meat Disco & Looky Looky

February 23, 2019, 10pm-4am. International lovelies Horse Meat Disco, joined by Detroit italo disco/electro duo Looky Looky, (Jeffrey Sfire and Ian Clark), playing a live set. Rounding out the amazing lineup - Kudeki from SF crew Noctuary, with support from Polyglamorous residents Major, Mark O'Brien and BEYA.
The 6th Annual Editon of the Largest LGBTQ Professional Event in the World
Lesbians Who Tech & Allies San Francisco 2019 Summit

February 28 - March 2, 2019. A tech conference  increasing visibility of LGBTQ women, trans + gender nonconforming individuals, LGBTQ people of color; demographics underrepresented in the tech sector/ LGBTQ spaces. “ TED, but with cooler people.”  80% queer women, 50% women of color, 25% Black/ Latinx people, 10% transgender and/or non-binary folks.
Mr San Francisco Leather Contest 2019
Leather Alliance Weekend

February 28 - March 3, 2019. Hightlights: THU meet and greet at Mr S Leather; FRI DInner + SF Leather Community Awards + Play Party at SF Catalyst. SAT 12-9pm vendor fair + Mr San Francisco Leather and  Bootblack contests; SUN Mr SF Leather and SF Bootblack 2019 Beverage Benefit at the SF Eagle.
GLBTHS monthly series explores contemporary queer issues in a historical context
Fighting Back - Love, Marriage & Queers: 15 Years of Bliss?

February 28, 2019, 7-9pm. Community panel looks back at history/ outcomes of the marriage equality movement in SF and nationally, 15 years after Gavin Newsom (SF mayor, now CA governor) mandated issuing SF same-sex couple marriage licenses. In violation of state law, the short-lived authorization sparked the "Winter of Love," as 4,000 same-sex couples formalized relationships.
An innovative new musical about identity and dialogue
Love & Pride the Musical

March 1-23, 2019, Featuring six characters who identify at different points along the spectrums of gender, sex and sexuality, and the conflicts that arise within themselves and with their relationships. Full of drama, heartfelt stories, and hilarious comedy. Book, Lyrics & Music by Syren Theater on the Cusp.
A panel of contemporary and classic nightlife photographers and writers
Flashing After Dark: Queer Nightlife Photography Then and Now

March 7, 2019, 7-9pm. Joining Melissa Hawkins to share their favorite photographs and stories of venturing into the night. Also a discussion of their professional methods, techniques, and addressing challenges and rewards of ever-changing camera technologies, the rise of social media and selfies, and evolving denizens' attitudes toward being photographed in the midst of debauchery.
New cinema from Germany, Austria & Switzerland presented by the Goethe-Institut
San Francisco's 23rd Berlin & Beyond Film Festival

March 8-10, 2019. Three days of screenings at the Castro Theatre. Since 1996, North America's largest German film festival. The best of recent cinematic discoveries from German-speaking countries, along with special guest artist appearances, forums, and diverse programs. Also March 11-14th TBA.
3 playful one-acts featuring powerful women, by playwright Don Nigro
Some Enchanted Evenings

March 8-23, 2019, 8pm (SUN 4pm). Join EXIT Artistic Director Christina Augello and stroll through enchanted woods in The Garden; embark on a journey with world-renowned spiritualist Mme. Blavatsky; and hear of sweet love and sweeter revenge in A Discoverie of Witchcraft. An unforgettable evening of mystery, mirth, with a touch of the macabre.
Hosted by DAD / Dudes And Disco and The STUD
DAD 2-Year Daddiversary w/ Jesse Frank + Elaine & Robin

March 9, 2019, 10pm-4am. DAD turns 2, showcasing a few daddy dearest disco selectors/ radiant wonderful humans for the occasion: Hunkadelic heartthrob Jesse Frank (Truck Stop, Phoenix) + SF prized power duo Elaine Denham B2B Robin Simmons (Odyssey, SF). ResiDAD DJs Kelly Naughton + Jumpr (Joe Weidman) serve daddilicious dancefloor debauchery! Party monster Christopher R Vasquez hosts.
Practices, people & ideas that kindle that restless urge for something creative
To Be Free: CounterPulse Festival 2019

March 13-17, 2019. Immersion into something radical. Something to spark the critical tedium that weighs in your stomach into resistance; performance, conversations, workshops, creative nightlife. Shared space of vital rituals supplant apathy with vitality. Imagine a way out of paralysis. Allow grief to ignite into intrepid celebration. In this moment, connections are a revolutionary act.
Part of SoMa Nights: The Queer Club Photography of Melissa Hawkins exhibition
Life Beyond Uranus: Remembering a Golden Age of San Francisco Nightlife

March 21, 2019, 7-9pm. Legendary club kids, DJs, queer punks, DIY fashionistas, nightlife promoters and club owners share 1980s-90s stories of nightlife before the Internet; clubs like Uranus, The Stud, the Box, The Eagle, Colossus, Universe. Outfits/items/looks from personal collections and GLBTHS Archives highlight how a resilient nightlife scene helped weather the darkest AIDS years.
A Theatre Rhinoceros World Premiere by John Fisher

March 22 - April 14, 2019, 8pm. The world’s biggest action hero Thom Snooze is about to come bursting out of the closet. He’ll do anything to promote his new film. But is this the right move? Everyone in his life says no, but his instincts say, “You go, girl!”
Cecil Russell Presents

March 23, 2019, 10pm-4am. Queer Circuit Party night with DJs Joe Pacheco + Joe Gauthreaux and VIP Hosts: Fernando, Christelle, Daniel, Roman, Carlos, Paul William, Brian Johnson, Taylor, and Chuckie. Tickets at
Visibility, Leadership and Political Power
Fighting Back | The L and the GBTQ

March 28, 2019, 7-9pm. Exploring contemporary queer issues in a historical context, focusing on struggles and successes of lesbians in relationship to history, the LGBTQ community and Bay Area coalition building. Historians, community organizers and advocates explore how lesbian identity and community have evolved, and how this history can help inform today’s resistance movements.
YBCA'S Raise a ruckus, raise the roof, raise some money: 25th Anniversary Party
This is Not a Gala

March 30, 2019, 7pm. Not a gala. Circus acts, burlesque, hip-hop, drag, live music, DJs, booze+bites, all-night dancing... no sit-down dinner, no long speeches or formalities. Irreverent revelry; surprising, inclusive, joyful immersive community celebration party with a purpose: a creative home for youth, artists and change makers moving us to think, feel, question, and act.
San Francisco Film Society Presents
San Francisco International Film Festival

April 10-23, 2019 - the 62nd annual spring festival of 14 days, an extraordinary showcase of cinematic discovery and innovation. Screening venues include: Castro Theatre, 429 Castro St, SF; Roxie Theater, 3117 16th St; Victoria Theatre, 2961 16th St; SFMOMA Phyllis Wattis Theater, Minna St; YBCA Screening Room, 701 Mission St; SFFILM FilmHouse, 644 Broadway. See program and schedules:
The 22nd Annual
National Queer Arts Festival 2019

Mid-May through late June, 2019. Performances, performance art, new queer work, visual arts; annual month-long Queer Arts Festival, Queer arts groups “Creating Queer Community” - a program that to date has commissioned more than 120 San Francisco-based artists to create new work.
Theatre Rhinoceros presents the Classic Thriller by Ira Levin

May 17 - June 2, 2019, 8pm. Playwright Sidney Bruhl needs a hit, desperately. Is he willing to kill to get it? Will his wife help him? How far will their nerve take them? And what will handsome Cliff’s reaction be when he finds out?
The film festival that provides a manageable amount of the truth
SF DocFest

May 30 - June 13, 2019. Annual festival devoted to documentary cinema. Two week event since 2001 has brought the most weird and wonderful aspects of real life to the big screen. "...a zippy blend of politics, music, social issues and youth-oriented subcultures...vibrant, irreverent form of entertainment ...." – Michael Fox, KQED. At Great Star, Roxie, Vogue theaters.
Frameline 43: There’s No Place Like Here…
San Francisco International LGBT Film Festival 2019

Mid-June, 2019, the 43rd edition annual 11-day event at Castro Theatre - the longest-running and largest gay film festival in the world. Ongoing series includes free films at Frameline at the Center, 1800 Market Street at 7:30pm, second Thursdays of select months.
One of the oldest and largest LGBTQIA parades in the world
San Francisco Pride 2019

June 22-23, 2019. Climaxing a month of events. SAT noon-6pm Celebration and Rally at Civic Center Plaza. Main stage inspirational speakers and performers. Over 200 exhibitors w/ wide variety of artists, local/ national businesses, nonprofits, artisans; food and beverage vendors. SUN 11am-6pm Parade, Market/Beale to Market/8th St. Past year saw 271 contingents, 50,000 people participate.
Hosted by Gloss Magazine
Heat Pride Friday 2019

June 28, 2019, 10pm-4am. International DJs TONY MORAN + DANI TORO. Six heavenly go-gos, amazing visuals and lighting; acrobats and food trucks! Limited Vip Tickets: Vip Area, Private Bathroom, 2 bottles of water and express entry and coatcheck. Vip Hosts: Mr .Pam, Christelle, Fernando, Daniel Blair, Carlos, Brian Johnson, Roman and Joey Mills.
At Steelhead Beach Regional Park
Boys and Bears Lazy River Float

July 20, 2019, 11am-4pm. Last year was lots of fun so lets do this again. Get out your BEST floats to drift down the Russian River with friends! FREE event ($10-15 parking). Start: Steelhead Beach, 9000 River Rd, Forestville. Stop: Sunset Beach, 11403 River Rd. Bring: Inflatables, sunblock, hats, water shoes, air pump, snacks, water, towels, floating cooler, water shooters, and music.
Warm up for Folsom
Up Your Alley Fair 2019

Late July, 2019, 11am-6pm. Leather & fetish annual street fair, SoMa district, Dore Alley between Folsom/ Howard Streets, adjoining blocks of Folsom between 9th/ Juniper Streets and Tenth between Howard and Sheridan Sreets. 12pm-2am SF Eagle Party On The Patio: hundreds of leather-clad sweaty bodies.
The Castro Bear's annual retreat! - 21st birthday weekend in Sonoma County woods
Lazy Bear 2019

July 29 - August 5, 2019. One of the largest/ most successful bear gatherings in the world, w/ pool parties, dance parties, bonfires, live entertainment + amazing DJs. Stay in local lodges, campgrounds and cabins, or avail yourself of nearby towns and cities. Eat at gourmet restaurants, local diners, cookouts and unique pop-ups. Drink world-class wine near the vineyards that produce it.
The 28th Year
San Francisco Fringe Festival 2019

September 5-14, 2019, at EXIT Theatre, 156 Eddy St. Magic, puppetry, clowning, solo performance, original work, and much more - the Bay Area’s largest grassroots festival charges forward with 33 unique shows from both local and non-local artists. See the full program schedule at website:
GSGRA-BAC presents the 26th
Bay Area Rodeo | Best Buck in the Bay

September 13-15, 2019, at Russian River Rodeo Grounds, Duncans Mills. Past year featured: FRI Buckin' Hot Pool Party + Contestant Registration; SAT Best Buck/Bay Rodeo events at Rodeo Grounds + Big ‘ol Dance Party; SUN rodeo events + Rodeo Awards Ceremony. Events in Calf-Roping, Team-Roping, Goat Dressing, Bull/Steer Riding, Wild Drag Race...
Leather Week main event
Folsom Street Fair 2019

September 29, 2019 (TBC), Sunday 11am-6pm, the world's largest leather event, on Folsom Street between 8th & 13th. Bigger IS better at this only-in-San-Francisco event! Something for everyone, 400,000 fetish enthusiasts on 13 city blocks. See updates as posted at website:
Established by Harvey Milk in 1974
Castro Street Fair 2019

October 6, 2019 (TBC), 11am-6pm. Annual street festival, the first Sunday of October, with hundreds of local artists, vendors, craftspeople, and organizations celebrate the diversity of the Castro neighborhood. Stages with live entertainment and dance pavilions too. Proceeds go directly to charitable causes important to the Castro community, and for the rainbow flag at Castro and Market.
Country-Western Dance Weekend
Sundance Stompede

Early November, 2019. The world's largest annual LGBT country-western dance weekend. Four nights of dance parties. Three days of dance workshops. Hundreds of cowfolks. One amazing weekend of events at Regency Center, 1300 Van Ness Ave; Sundance Saloon; and Golden Gateway Holiday Inn, 1500 Van Ness Ave. A fundraising benefit for AIDS and Breast Cancer Emergency Funds.
16th annual genre film festival 2018
Another Hole In The Head

November - December, 2019. Two week San Francisco IndieFest with the best new independent film from around the world - 160+ fims to screen 15 days of horror, sci-fi, and fantasy by the presenters of SF DocFest, SF IndieFest, SF IndieShorts and the Another Hole in the Head film festivals. See AHITH website.