Gay Chiang Mai
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This walled city is one of the most enchanting places in Thailand. Founded in 1296 AD, the old city is surrounded by a moat and there are 30 Buddhist temples within the walls, giving it a fairy-tale feel. Over 300 temples cover the local area, with Burmese, Sri Lankan and Lanna Thai architectural styles, reflecting the region's varied cultural heritages. Wat Phrathat Doi Suthep, overlooking the city from high ground 13 km away, is the most famous of these. Home to the hill tribes of Thailand, the district's people have a diversity of physical appearances, and many workers in Chiang Mai come from Shan, in SE Burma. With more natural forest than anywhere else in Thailand, this northern region has retained much of it's scenic beauty too.
Located about 400 miles north of Bangkok, Chiang Mai sits high among the foothills of the Himalayas. Reached only by a difficult river journey or elephant trek until the 1920s, it had an isolation which helped preserve many of it's charms until today. Temperatures tend to be cooler than elsewhere to the south of the country, attracting expatriate foreign settlers, who have opened many bars, restaurants, guesthouses and shops. The city has good quality, low priced accommodations, food and shopping and a very international vibe, making it a favorite destination for gay tourists.
The gay scene is surprisingly varied. With a more subdued nightlife than Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket, it does have host and go-go bars (some with naked dancers), many massage parlors (some with "happy endings"), two gay saunas, gay-friendly mixed dance clubs, pubs, cafes, and coffee houses. A year of pandemic and fewer tourists has taken it's toll however, with a number of guest houses, bars/clubs and spas closing down in 2020-21.
Gay areas include: Chang Phuak, the biggest gay district, with the larger, most popular gay venues; and the upcoming and upscale Huay Kaew/Nimanhemin Road neighborhood. The Night Bazaar area, once the main gay district, lost ground for many years, and in 2014 its last two bars moved out, along with the free-lance hustlers who would hang around. Several more bars and saunas are scattered about the city.
Chiang Mai International Airport is the country’s second largest gateway. Buses, minibuses and taxis will get you downtown, and most hotels provide cheap or free transport to and from the airport.
Train services from Bangkok's Hualamphong Station leave on a regular daily schedule and take 12-15 hours to reach Chiang Mai. The State Railway website is difficult to follow, so try Train Travel in Thailand website for an overview, and Bangkok to Chiang Mai times & fare information. Overnight sleepers with fold-down bunk beds are relatively comfortable and good value for a nights accommodation as well as transport.
You can easily walk around the old city. You’ll also want to take a tuk-tuk, one of the speedy, three-wheeled motorcycles that ply the downtown streets. Ask a local how much your fare should be, because drivers may overcharge tourists. Locals get around on a songthaew, a covered pick-up truck with two long bench seats in back running around on fixed routes, picking up passengers enroute. Warorot Market is a central point for finding a songthaew. Regular taxis can take you to outlying sights, and are a good bet for heading home at night.
Currency and Money
The local currency in the Thai baht. You’ll find ATMs most easily in the downtown tourist areas.
Prostitution is technically illegal, but widely tolerated so long as both people are over 18 years old, and various legal caveats make 18 the practical age of consent. Check out Squirt.org for more.
Media & Resources
Gay in Chiang Mai is a local website with listings, a news blog, and all the latest goings-on.
Attitude is the national gay Thai monthly magazine in Thai. Buy at newsstands.
Chiang Mai Citylife is a mainstream magazine and website for the area. One-Stop Chiang Mai, and the The Chiang Mai Mail also have general-public news and guides to the city, with gay listings too - all in English.
For map locations and website links to the businesses below, and more, see our gay Chiang Mai listings pages.
Aruntara Boutique Hotel (351/1 Charoen Prathet Rd, Changklan, Muang), general public hotel mix at riverside, pool, spa, restaurant, WiFi, bikes
Dusit D2 (100 Chang Klan Rd, A Muang), 131 central rooms, pool, spa, restaurants/bars, WiFi
Four Seasons Chiang Mai (Mae Rim-Samoeng Old Rd, Mae Rim), 98 spacious rural pavilions, luxury villas, & residence resort, spa, full amenities.
Lotus Hotel (2/25 Viangbua Rd, Tambol Chang-Phuak), popular gay hotel/restaurant, garden bar, guests' guests ok. May be closed.
Mandarin Oriental Dhara Dhev (51/4 Sankampaeng Rd, Tasala A, Muang), 54 suite, 64 villa luxury resort, full amenities, spa, restaurants and bars, American breakfast buffet.
Phucome Hotel (2 Khanklong Chonprathan Rd, Muang), modern rooms/suites, restaurant and bar, live music, pool, sauna, spa.
PJ's Place (19, Soi Plubplueng, Huay Kaew Rd), gay-friendly hotel, en-suite rooms, cable TV, WiFi, full breakfast, tour arrangements.
Santitham Guesthouse (61 Santitham Rd, Chang Phuak), modern teak wood villa, 11 large standard and deluxe rooms. May be closed.
Soulmates Retreat (31/1 M8 Ban wangtan T Luangnua, A Doisaket) - CLOSED - luxury country guesthouse, infinity pool, bikes, WiFi.
Tamarind Village Boutique Hotel (50/1 Rajdamnoen Rd, Tambon Si Phum, Mueang), 45 rooms and suites in historic district, serene garden courtyards, all amenities.
Adam’s Apple Club (1/21-22 Tanon Viangbua, Chang Puek), handsome young go-go dancers from 9pm, erotic and exotic costumed ladyboy shows from 10:30pm, hi-tech sound and lights, karaoke, comfy sofas.
Circle Pub (161/7-8 soi Erawan, Chang Phuak Rd), host bar, shows, muscle boy shows, mostly Thai crowd.
Garden Bar at Lotus Hotel (2/25 Soi Viangbua, Chotana Rd), gay bar set in lush tropical gardens at Lotus Hotel Thai/Western restaurant; outdoor tables, expats and locals mix, easy conversation. May be closed.
G-Bar (4/1 Moonmung Rd. soi 2), gay host bar and guesthouse in the Old City, friendly young staff. Formerly Golden Oldies.
The House Food & Kitchen Bar (199 Moon Muang Rd), gay-friendly Asian fusion restaurant and antique/ novelties shop from 10am daily. Coffee, cake, cocktails, snacks or gourmet Thai or Euro-Asian fusion meals.
New My Way (3/5-6 Hatsadi Sawee Rd, soi 3), host bar, nightly "special" (nude) and ladyboy cabaret shows each night.
Pandee Bar (Chareon Phrathet, soi 6, Kalare Night Bazaar), Thai/ Italian restaurant, gay bar cocktails, beer and wine, open 5pm-midnight daily, friendly staff, sidewalk seating.
The Pub (189 Huay Kaew Rd) - CLOSED - English-style pub for everyone; British beer, restaurant, full breakfasts from 7am, Thai and international dining, Sunday afternoon roasts with Yorkshire pudding, plus bungalow lodgings.
Ram Bar (48 Chareon Phrathet, soi 6), gourmet coffees, pastries, WiFi, relaxed evenings at air-conditioned lounge; Wednesday-Sunday full service outdoor bar, food, cabaret shows, male dancer shows; local Thais, expat residents and visitors.
RayUp (Atsadathon Rd, Chang Purk) - CLOSED - young gay/mixed second floor cafe and host bar, cayote boys/shows.
Secrets Bar (Chareon Phrathet, soi 6), gay cocktail bar, friendly mix of guys, locals, expats and tourists of all ages; pool tables, WiFi. Next to Ram Bar.
See Man (Canal Rd), large modern gay nightclub, live music, "coyote boy" dancers on stage, mostly young Thai crowd.
Sound Up (5/3 Moon Muang Rd, soi 2, Old Town), big gay/mixed disco, open daily from 9pm, young Thais. The former Mandalay Disco.
Warm Up Café (40 Nimmarnhaemin Rd), gay-friendly, young college crowd mix, dance bar and café, courtyard.
CLOSED: Chiang Mai Coffee Stop (203/12 Huai Kaeo Rd); CU Bar (Somphet Gold Pl); Grand Arena (12 Huay Kaew Rd); G-Star Vintage (Chottana Rd); Metro Bar & Café (1/21-22 Wiang Bua Rd); OkeBoy Club Karaoke Bar (255/5-6 Mooban ChiangMaiLand, Mahidol Rd); Rad chada Café (15 Thewarit Rd); Soho Bar (20/3 Huay Kaew Rd, Chang Phuak); X-Change Club (25/9-10 Ratvithi Rd); Yokka Dok (11 Ratchamankha Rd).
Club One Seven (85/2 Charoen Prathet Rd, Changklan), eleven air-conditioned traditional Thai teak guesthouse rooms; gym, swimming pool, steam and sauna; Thai Massage, Natural Nights (clothing off, mask on), pool parties; Thai and western cuisine cafe.
House of Male (19 Sirimangklajarn Rd, Soi 3), gay sauna, fitness and relaxation center 1:30-10pm daily; pool, gym,garden, Thai student and foreigner favorite.
We list a dozen male for male massage spas in our services pages, but there are more. A high turnover rate among these establishments keeps guidebooks and websites busy with updates, so check the websites and local press, and ask around before you go.
Find locations and website links for the above, along with more bars, clubs, restaurants, and spas, at our map & listings page for Chiang Mai.